Leader-Ship

2008, when I was appointed as the head boy of hostel (Hostel Captain) I got opportunity to lead 100+ young minds of nation....my warden told me "the life you are living is dreams of millions"...I gave a surprised look and asked him "Sir, aisa kyun Kah rahe ho?? "...!! He said you are a leader now... (I goggled and tried to search meaning of leader) !! Eventually, I got the opportunity to lead my college football and Basketball team in final year...but life took different path in 2012, when, I started new journey of life... To search a job for myself...I got one....my Dad asked a very simple question...what's your aim for this job? I proudly answered...I want to earn money...he opposed me saying never work for money. Rather work for passion…do what makes you happy…not what gives you money…Money doesn't gives happiness…but happiness may give you money…In simple word he wanted to follow his spirit “work to become a leader and work with a leader”..! After all I decided the ultimate goal of my life is that "I need to work with a leader and become a leader"..!! I joined corporate and started searching for a leader. Let me tell you the truth I dint find a single leader. I can publicly say none of my manager till now deserves to be called as leader..!!

Before you start reading ahead... Ask a question to yourself... Who are you????... Think for 5 sec...1..2...3...4...5....! Over.. So,  you are (Abnish, Sumeet, Nitesh, Pooja, Mahi, Arundhati, Sumi, Priyanka, Madhu, Shireen, Jiten or anyone..........)
Now, Let me ask you!  Who are you?  Who are you?  Do you know???...Who are you?  .... Are you boy or Girl?  ...are you a lady or gentleman? ....are you a recruiter or job seeker? .... Are you a manager or a fresh face? .....are you a psychologist or sexologist?... Are you a Lover or not? ...are you girlfriend or boyfriend?... Are you an engineer or beggar?...are you a cricketer or footballer ?...are you long runner or short runner?...

You May be a combination of many... But u forgot the basic thing..Yes! "You are a human"..!! The human born to serve world, Nation, family and at last him/herself...and to become anything in life first you have to become a true human..! You have to respect the humanity..! And the one who defines the humanity is A Leader....!!

INDIA's population is 1.252 billion... Do you know being the one of leading nation we lack in leadership...we are short of leaders... The few we have is political and other few leading companies like Google and Microsoft in some other country.

We are, if truth be told, a nation of cowards who don’t have the courage to admit their weakness but are happy to blame a well-meaning man or woman (leader) who, perhaps, takes his/her life motto of ‘Izzat aur Iqbal’....yes I am talking about the few folks whom I met in Corporate. Who always love to criticize others ability and quality rather taking their responsibilities as priority..!

Who is Leader?
The one who stands for Izzat (Respect). Either it may be Self-Respect or Respect of his Team mates/Subordinates. If a leader disrespects one he never get chance to lead the same person again in life said by my dad who proudly lead soldiers in Kargil War.

Leader's life is all about Respect. "God Bless Leaders"

Stay tuned upcoming articles "Getting Married"...!!

Let Her Live-2

I wanted to write on this topic "The walls of Corporate has seen more affairs than walls of College" but a recent event changed my mind where I found another woman battling for her dignity and prestige and I decided to write on Let Her Live-2.

Its neither an article nor a story but rather I would say it's a social message for the one who is directly or indirectly mental tortured or harassed by their managers or team lead or may be sub ordinates in corporate companies and for also against the men who think and behave in a way as if they are over authorized....!!

She is being tortured, harassed since years.. Mental torture is no less than physical rape.. But may be more than that where she dies every day....Believe me, She loses a life which she has been dreaming for last 20 years... ..where she is searching for a Prince for herself but gets devil in her own office...she loose trust, she regret being a girl, she suffers,  she cries, she has forgotten to smile and ways of fun, she hate being part of team outing, she loses hope, she forgets her dreams....!!! Yes she is devastated because what she faces in her daily life she can't share with anyone not even with her mother..!!

Either it may be male or female, India have a great tradition and spirit to fall in love with crush....! Nothing wrong, if you have crush on someone go and talk... Demand what you want???..But, If she/he is not interested..Move on dude..Crush your crush... she/he is not meant for you...Don’t give a fuck, simple as that she/he doesn’t want...!!

To the woman who goes through such harsh pain in Office/companies... Remember your life is prestigious...talk to such people in a decent way... Don't give them a damn...rather say you are not interested...tell them twice and thrice..Every educated understand the priorities of a woman...if not, go and complain- company HR, Local police..File the case and fight for yourself..!!! It's good to be a fighter rather being a coward...!!

To all such man I end this asking a simple question..

-Is this the future you want for your daughters and wives ???

To society and girls...you aren't alone.."Let's Join Hands".. We are with you! 

tO be COntinued.......

http://leadbhardwaj.blogspot.in/2015/03/let-her-live.html (Let Her Live)

Stay tuned my upcoming article.."Leadership" and "Getting Married"....!!!