Am Yes Dhoni !!!

INDIA is a country where people always LOVE to do debate on 3 topics (Religion, Politics and Cricket) even if they don’t have any knowledge. ….

We 6 including me were sitting... We were not in mood to do time pass but we wanted to have some knowledgeable fun.. My all-time favorite peers always love to poke me so they can listen something exciting and interesting... One of us picked the topic which was related to CRICKET.. I avoid such topics... the topic was M.S Dhoni… “Mahendra Singh Dhoni- MAHI”….. I respect him cause he is one who represented my country...my INDIA... My peers started criticizing... That was the time when I realized my philosophy attitude will not work and voice came from inside (beta Ritesh, ab to bolnaa padega…ho ja shuruu..)…. It was time to start argument.. I don’t know I was the winner of Saturday night or not, but somehow I convinced my other 5 friends to follow my spirit..

I believe he is the world best Leader…  I know all have different perception about MS Dhoni and leaders…. You May tell me world best leader was Hitler, Napoleon, Great Asoka or many more.. I may agree… but I have not seen anyone of them… I have seen MS Dhoni-  leadin..growing..achieving and winning…. Its not story of MS Dhoni.. its story of a boy a Destiny’s favorite boy…story of an Indian boy … you believe or not it’s really an unbelievable story ... we need courage to do… we need determination to do… we need quality to do… we need inspiration to do… we need motivation to do… and this boy from small village did...this boy is IDOL for many youngsters like me...

If you are a true fan of cricket you might remember how many months he took to be the captain of India from an unknown player of state "Bihar"...when BCCI made him captain.. Expectations from him were very high… very-very high… … “To be the best leader we need to be a performer not an entertainer”… he stood and proved…he lead...he gave us best moments of our life by winning two World Cups, a Champions Trophy and made India number one Test side.... His contribution to Indian Test cricket is awesome. Played 90 Test matches for India, most dismissals as a wicketkeeper for India, most runs as a wicketkeeper-batsman for India, most Test wins as a Captain of India- it’s a phenomenal record that every Indian can be proud of...if today we are able to see the super performance of Virat Kohli or Rohit sharma or Ravindra Jadeja  its cause of trust  which MS Dhoni showed on them. …

Nowadays he is been criticizing.... he should not be questioned regarding captaincy skills, he don’t deserve any criticism… he need our support so he can win the upcoming worldcup-2015… I also found few of us popping questions regarding his retirement from test cricket, regarding selection of Stuart Binny in world cup squad and dropping Yuvraj singh…

My questins to all those -  do you wanted to drag his Test cricket career like a few of our Indian greats did???. He didn’t create any fuss. He just walked away respectfully which was never done in Indian cricket since the time I started watching cricket… it’s a quality of true man, a true leader, a gentleman... why Stuart Binny in team ??? MS dhoni is really not answerable person.. if you want then go and ask Roger Binny who is the father of Straut Binny and selector of 5 member of BCCI selection committee.... “We are Indians and so We are family oriented... Here son of politician's become politicians...son of engineer become engineer... Son of cricketer become cricketers...son of actor becomes actor... son of an army officer joins Army... then y not player of a world cup winner can become a member of world cup team.”… after this I don't think u need any explanation...we are mature and we can understand how established pedagogy works in India...

Summary: Criticism Is A Part Of Life, But A Quality Of Leaders Should Be Never Neglected.

Happy New Year

It's time of the New Year. The fun is flowing, the party is on mind, and you're thinking about with whom you are going to drink at midnight, who you’re going to kiss at midnight. Yes, it's just about time for New Year's, 2015....So, Welcome 2015...

Do you know???... This is not an event it’s a festival... Yes festival... the festival which is celebrated by the world at a time… I mean to say at same time. .. The festival which doesn't care for any religion... the festival which doesn't care for any country….  The festival which sells more alcohol in a single day compared to any other day... The festival which distributes more gifts in a single day compare to all other day…. New year is always in a mood to forget the pain we suffered in past and look for the new upcoming Success..

The best part what i like during new year is its resolutions...yes resolutions are the goals you set aggressively for yourself.. I have seen my friends, family and society  telling "Ritesh, is baar mai resolution leta hun ki...bla ..bla..and bla.. :)..Like .." I'm going to exercise more. I'm going to network more. I'm going to start that business. I'm going to lose weight. I'm going to be vegetarian. I'm not going to flirt any more. I'm not going to drink any more. I'm going to quit Smoke. I'm going to be a model. I'm not going to tell lie and lot more.....  

I know it's not easy to keep at it, day after day, and week after week... I have seen ppl breaking their own resolutions.. It’s your wish! If you have your New Year’s resolution? Plan to keep it... A smart plan...

A Small Message for All (Wishing You A Great New Year)..........This year do for yourself. ...Do for parents....Do for society. Do for country....Live your life cause "We Live Once" and who knows "Kal Ho Naa Ho”…. I know you have to do. You can do. And you will do. ..Yes you Will...I know you are a Warrior. You are a fighter..

Nothing works better changing a mind-set than a great quote. I COPIED few QUOTES which can inspire you, When you're starting new assignments in 2015...you might use one of these marvellous quotes to spark creativity...

·         If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got. [Albert Einstein]

·         Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. [Will Rogers]

·         When the rate of change outside is more than what is inside, be sure that the end is near. [Azim Premji]

·         The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man. [George Bernard Shaw]

·         Minds are like parachutes; they work best when open. [T. Dewar]

·         You cannot discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. [Andre Gide]

·         Innovation is anything, but business as usual. [Anonymous]

·         If at first the idea is not absurd, then there will be no hope for it. [A. Einstein]

·         Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all. [Dale Carnegie]

·         Ideas are useless unless used. [T. Levitt]

·         It is not how many ideas you have. It’s how many you make happen. [Advertisement of Accenture]

·         Innovation is the ability to convert ideas into invoices. [L. Duncan]

·         Everything is possible. The impossible just takes longer. [Dan Brown]

WISH you all, your family and your loved & dear ones  a wonderful, cheerful, and successful HAPPY NEW YEAR- 2015.

WhatsApp-"A" Revolution

2 years back one of my friend told me "dude, naya aap aaya hai download kar named WhatsApp".I opened play store and searched for "Whats up? ". I dint find anything..hopefully I replied him "Yaar mil nahi raha hai".. He reacted "bugger it's WhatsApp not Wats Up? ".. And finally I downloaded....

I don't know whether u know or not but the Best daily selling products in India is "Gol-Gappa" ...yes it's Panipuri...the consumption of "Gol-Gappa" is more than the consumption of tea glass..but shocking part the no of messages send  thru WhatsApp is more than the consumption of "Gol-Gappa" in India....

Today I am in mood to write about WhatsApp.. I will separate the part like Logical and Illogical..everything have two parts pros and cons.. But being a technical guy..I will not write pros and cons of WhatsApp..cause its a Technology..it's a revolution..and if u or me talk about Technology..in coming months or years 100% It can beat us with its new version...

Logical:- Oh yes Marketing..! Respected WhatsApp I sincerely want to understand from where you make Money.. Is that Google play store that gives you money or does network like Vodafone, Airtel,  Bsnl etc pays you money.. No,  I don't think..then Respected 'Mark Zuckerberg' y u bought whatsapp paying huge 19 billions dollars..? If u are not crazy than what ???..?. I don't think... I think it's marketing.. Believe or not..  WhatsApp is an addiction..today it's in mind of youth.you can easily find this app in everyone mobile...you will find ppl using in metro, at roads, office, bus, platform, train even in washrooms....
So, If this addiction continues in the veins of youth and if WhatsApp charge even Rs 50 for one year from each user..WhatsApp can boom in one day..I am not sure but I know WhatsApp will do this one day.. Let's c.. Let's wait...

Illogical:- WhatsApp is a simple, fast and reliable mobile messaging service that is used by over 450m people on every major mobile platform. More than 1million people sign up for WhatsApp every day and it is on its way to connecting 1billion people. More and more people rely on WhatsApp to communicate with all of their contacts every day. Awesome features like last seen at, profile photo, status, seen by everyone, my contacts, no body.. Most important blocked option.. Oh great.. All looks new like double mark.. Blue tick mark.. The only thing they should improve is the feature of "last seen at" should be changed to "last seen with".. It can definitely make difference...

Summary: WhatsApp Is A Revolution

PaIN is Temporary

Sometime life is not easy.. Sometime pain hurts..But pain is Temporary.. I will not write about pain but i will write how to come out from pain...since many days i was going thru hell.. was fighting with life and death..somehow i won.. I want to thank all who supported me specially one Angel who mentally supported me to win the war of life.

No one love Pain and No one Deserve Pain.. !!!!

I know It is not easy to fight with bad situation. But a moral support can make us to come out from this.
"First time I decided to write For all my friends, whether close or casual, just because. One of the longest blog I will write, and the most real too. Everyone will go through some hard times at some point. Life isn't easy. Just something to think about..did you know the people that are the strongest are usually the most sensitive? Did you know the people who exhibit the most kindness are the first to get mistreated? Did you know the ones who take care of others all the time are usually the ones who need it the most? Did you know the courage need to quit life, 10% of that courage make that person win over the world?. Did you know the three hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry, and help me?
Sometimes just because a person looks happy, is not.you have to look past their smile to see how much pain they may be in. To all my friends who are going through some issues right now--let's start an intention avalanche.... We all need positive intentions right now. If you are going through hard situation,I am ready to give you a moral and mental support.....
May I ask you to forward or share this blog to all your friends wherever you might be, to give a moment of support to all of those who have family problems, health struggles, job issues, Love problems, worries of any kind and just needs to know that someone cares for them. Do it for all of us, for nobody is immune. I hope to see this with every one. friends just for moral support. I know some will!!! I did cause I know the real pain of life and I care for you all.

Well Said by Lance Armstrong-

“Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever. That surrender, even the smallest act of giving up, stays with me. So when I feel like quitting, I ask myself, which would I rather live with?”

Summary: Don't ever run from hard, tough and bad situations. just fight at last you will win and you will be "A Warrior"...Remember: "Har Raat ke Baad Savera Hota Hai"

Note: Few Content is originally Edited…Source: Unknown and Lance Armstrong

I Am "Misogynist" ?

It was late night or morning 2:30 Am- I was on trip to Goa, was enjoying with my best buddies.. I received a call , one of my friend c wanted to speak...I dint pick the call as I was tired cause of beach bath.. But I read a message in watsapp "Hi Ritu"…there are really few who call me by this name…and she is a sweet fellow, my corporate colleague..…and we exchanged thoughts..shared stories..I wanted to say bye..but turned out to where I avoid it the most… , somehow,she showed courage and asked it…and even before I could think and start typing back…another message appeared, ”haan haan tera to standard bahut hain, tuje kahan koi pasand aaegi, bhav khata hai” !!! she took me completely wrong ..!!! I know, The worlds difficult thing is to convince a girl…still I tried, "mujhe interest nahi hai, faltu ke chij ke liye…”, I was rude, but a real woman can understand and she understood..she knows I only talk sense..she knows me... she’s princess .. But still she said "F@ck Dude, Tune ek chance kho diya..you are misogynist and later she blocked me in watsapp".. Literally I dint understood to the core. But she made me very silent !!!

Biggest thing for me is what I want from life and what life want from me.
I live for my cause ”only Country and BLOOD”…I believed there is nothing like love but only blood and country …it flows in you and keeps you attached no matter what…u do awesome or bad still you are of this country and your parents...u are spoiled, u fail, u succeed, u r wrth or not…u r still a part of your parents and country... no matter wat u think about this…no matter if u give a damn about it.... But if I speak about love I will only give 'bull shit', i remembered recent Aamir Khan "PK" movie song "Love is a Waste of Time".. i am totally agreed...love in your word creates boundary-limitations in my word, I can relate and prove with some of the natural and excellent examples. But I will not. I want u to experience and realise the real fact.

According to me The real love is Mom and Dad love,they have affection for us..
I will not  write of father…they are just proud of their blood…I will say about “Mom”…I will say about mom love…

Being a man, I have absolutely no idea what women think, or what are their perceptions, what are their instincts and priorities, but it doesn't matter, every girl will be mother someday and they no longer will be humans, humans live for themselves..mother lives for her kid… men remain same throughout…they become dads and they Will be humans…I know what fathers think..i know about their anger, I know about their proudy behaviour…men will be men… men will be humans…females will b god one day…yeah god...

I may be not the world hottest or smartest man. But I know I am coolest. I respect them who respects me. So, I too blocked the girl. Leading my life for my cause and dreams.!!!

Y U Need "Break-UP" ??

Today morning, I opened Facebook account and I read a status update "I am getting married"..... it's by one of my close friend. It seems as if the majority of my friends are settling down, falling in love and moving in with their girlfriend or wife.I felt like, I was being left behind.......

I turned my face towards past, thought for long time, went to past, remembered my X.... And after all what I realised is the grass which looks green is Not really "GREENER"..
Trust me lot of relationships don’t work out and a lot of ppl who are in relationships may eventually start wondering what else is out there....
I will write few things which you really can enjoy being a single or after break up.. After figuring this out, you might also think, its better to be single ......

1.Travel-you will get chance to roam world, to meet different ppl, to find new friend.
2.Time- you can spend quality time with friends and family.
3.Sports-You can play your Favourite sports.
4.Career oriented- yes you will love your work gradually you will find career growth
5.Dating- Go on as many dates as you want. may be you will find someone really awesome.
6.Books- you will find lot of time to read a book or write a novel.
7.Bed-you will lie right in the middle of bed, cause one day, you’ll only have one side.
8.Freedom- You will Enjoy the freedom of being able to make decisions based solely on what you want.
9.Sleep-you can Stay out late and sleep in as long as you like — who’s judging?
10.Yes- Be a “yes” person,You have more space in your life now than you ever will...don’t let any opportunity pass you by.

Summary: Try not to look for love or ...(dont know), It will only distract you from what you could be enjoying during the here and now… you can distract from your ambition, goal, aspiration,motivation and inspiration.. just let it happen ....At last One day, when you’re telling your children about life...you will be able to tell them how much you truly lived and how ready you were when you brought them into the world.

"We Live Once" ??

One of my smallest but very meaningful Blog. Ppl have different perception about life. I know ppl have different things, they talk, they express, they live.. ...

But truly I say "We Live Once", "We Dream Once", "Passion Is One","We Die Once".. Remaining is compromise...

The thought came in my mind when today morning I was leaving my home for cricket match ...my all time  favorite neighbors baby asked "Anna, today she will come with me".. I thot for while asked her mom, her mom replied. No problem take her, but I should help her to complete her home work in evening, I agreed .....Baby dad left us till stadium in his car.. He asked me take Care of her.."I replied, Sir don't worry if c s ur daughter then c s my younger sister.."..

The time she was in ground.. She enjoyed ..She cheered..She shouted... She kissed me saying Anna love you... She is awesome..She is Princess.. She is cute.. She is sweet... She is a kid.. She is an Indian Kid..

Is really a life too short to enjoy or too long to struggle??

I remembered The one of the best movie "Kuch Kuch hota hai"... And dialogue of Sharukh khan "Hum ek baar jite hain, ek baar marte hain, shaadi bhi ek hi baar hoti hai, aur pyaar, pyaar bhi ek hi baar hota hai"..... I really don't know how true is above lines but i still remember in same movie Sharukh Khan married twice...also loved twice.....

I don't want to say about death the reason is frankly I have not seen it.. But hope "Jab aayegi to uske bhi alag andaaj honge"....

But definitely I will say about life... Yes we live once, live it with dignity, style, class, dance, sing, enjoy, fun, shout, cheer .. so after all an exclamation mark should come rather than a question mark..... Past I have seen it.. Past never comes back..  It is only remembered..

As i promised kid mom i helped her to complete homework, meanwhile i wrote this blog and published it.. :)

At last I will say... "Good or bad.. you have to feel it..to the core.. Story continues as it is but Life goes on"....!! Yes We live once..!