Re-Sume or Re-Zoom

I exactly don’t remember when i made it first time, but i believe it was in 2011. ..And i would love to share one of the memorable moments of engineers (Or may be any Graduate or job seeker) life...

I was in 3rd Year engineering (may be the start of final year engineering)...and early morning i gt to know that next week TCS is arriving to place us. The one of the best day of an engineer’s life.. My one friend told "Ritesh chal yaar aaj class bunk karte hai, surprisingly i asked kyun be ???".. yaar CV banayenge..literally i asked "ye kya hai"??...he smiled and said "Resume"..(CV, Resume and Bio-Data, all have different meaning but same mission to search job).. oh, god ...it was TCS..it was a Job...it was a dream..no doubt, the excitment was more than kissing a gal,,, so i finally decided to bunk class and we rushed to hostel and straight on lappy.. we made it ..yes we made our resume..

Next day i threw my resume , cause I got a call from Indian Air force to attend interview for Pilot.. I packed my luggage. My friend replied "Yaar, you will fly high, i will be suffering in corporate..". He attended TCS and got a tag of ASE "Assistant System Engineer". i too attended IAF-Pilot and Failed....I came back to college and after knowing my friend will work for TCS and i will be Unemployed, Soaked me from inside...

In my mind word striked is “Zindagi akele h jiyee jaati hai…dusroon k kandon par toh janaaze nikla karte hain”... hack..its Irelevent.. when i turned face i found my few other friends in same condition.. finally i was happy thinking "koi to mere sath hai.."

the next was another company..."Finally my resume was ready for next battle"... i attended interview and failed....the interviewer asked me they would love to meet a software programmer rather than meeting a sportsman... i made it again and failed..i made it again-again and failed....my resume was like "day dreaming"....i read it somewhere....“Day dreaming helps us to focus on what we want”... But I edited it in my way “Day dreaming helps us to change the perception, to gain the passion, to explore and discover and ultimately achieving what we love”....

After all i realised what i can do is : "i can edit my resume".. each job in this world have different responsibilities..so edit it according to job description... i am not telling anyone to fake but remember some wise man said "Fake It If You Can Make"...because Everybody in this world wants to win in their respective fields...so make your passion as destination...

To all those who says resume is only a piece of Paper..yak..i am not agree....it is the personality of one which is presented on paper....what you do ?? in interview is your perception...but what is on your resume is attitude which you must need to define in interview...

Summary: We are in the generation where Competition is an addiction and the consequences of it leave high impact on the individuals. But you ever thought that your resume can give you victory it can take you to destination ???..

Date An Engineer

I may be 25 and dated more than 25 but still not that much experienced that I can define… “What women want in relationship”???... I have met so many beautiful faces as friend, as a crush, as a love ….someone touched heart… someone touched emotion…someone touched feeling….and someone touched…… My last date was with a MBA Girl… “She is awesome. Superb”….i don’t want to describe much but I remembered what she said at last “You Engineers are Awesome” and hence blood of an engineer suggested me to write something why one should date an engineer….the below universally true points can really describe engineer if not 100% than sure 80% engineers comes in this category…!!!!!

1. An engineer has no idea how hot he is since he has a nerd complex through high school and college and that’s kind of adorable and sexy at the same time

2. He has done all kinds of crazy things, in college and in real life and will do it all over again with you.

3. No matter how mad engineers get when you ask them to fix everything from your car to your AC to your heart, they CAN and will do it. Yep, they are keepers!

4. They are incredibly rational, so when you get into a fight they will analyze the situation and make sure it does not happen again.

5. He has the right kind of confidence, one that charms your pants off!

6. He is not at all arrogant about picking up women; in fact, he has learned that being smart and sexy will work when it comes to women

7. He will tell you tech jokes that you won’t understand. After that, he’ll explain everything to you in simple terms. Oh the patience!

8. They grasp things quickly. So when you say whether you like or dislike something, they will remember it

9. He will talk nerd to you and it is so much better than the regular!

10. He will be attentive to your problems and will not only lend you an ear but will also fix your problems, at times, perhaps with a power point presentation.

11. He can help you code your blog and fix all your tech troubles, for that matter. You really don’t need anyone else once you have an engineer.

12. He will be the one single man who knows everything. You will not require anyone if you date an engineer – neither a plumber, mechanic nor electrician.

13. They are not scared of research and love planning things so if you are going on a vacation, they will know the best time to buy tickets and will get you the best deals. Talk about efficiency!

14. They will always allow you to give them advice about what they should wear and will take you shopping!

15. They know the value of having fun, thanks to leisure time they had in college! You will never get bored because they will take you around the city and have you explore things from swanky cafés to cool book shops.

16. When you scream at them, they will know how to handle it. They are programmed to handle stress, thanks to college professors.

17. Boy, can they can flirt! Their field of practice? With teachers and professors during submissions! But hey, who’s complaining? They will flirt with you even after they have wooed you. Who does that these days?

18. He will be that one guy who is so used to rote learning that there are no chances of him forgetting your birthday or your anniversary.

19. Almost all of them have a creative side to them – they are singers, sportsman (I am thinking about myself), writers (of course, u r reading my article), poets, musicians, guitarists, dancers (we have performed bhangra on kannada music)! How can you not fall for a multi-talented person?

20. They are masters of pulling all nighters, the sex is always best at 4:00 AM. if you know what I mean.

21. No need to be jealous of other women at his office, there will hardly be any!

22. He will do the math for you, even without a calculator. Imagine the relief!

23. He pays A LOT of attention to details. *wink wink*

24. Your parents will never say no to an engineer (during the times of my mom).

25. They are always up for a challenge. So, during the difficult phase in your relationship, they will solve them as a challenge instead of running away.

26. Their approach to dating is awesome. They want to get it right the first time!

27. He is a die-hard romantic at heart and all your dates, birthdays and anniversaries will be super romantic. And every girl needs a romantic guy!

28. They are not afraid of long term relationships once they find the right one. They will give their 100% to you.

Source: Unknown # few contents are Originally-Copied and Edited

UN-(Able)

This post is against all men and women....who think and behave in a way as if they are over authorized....!!

The thought came in my mind when I stepped into a small ground to play cricket match and I found few personalities as owner of sports... Being a good sportsman and lover of sports I only respect those who play sports in the spirit of sports..! ...

I remembered an event which hppnd with me almost 1 year back...My friend’s phone and laptop was stolen...he is a Wonderful guy.. Shouldn't hppn to him... It's a pain...it's pain of separation....it's like death of (mobile and laptop)...I think in today's world the Best Friend for all  men and women is mobile and laptop...!!!!

We went to police station for a FIR. “Sir, phone aur laptop gum hua hai...FIR karwana hai.....” Even before we complete our sentence, policeman opened his drawer, took out a rim of applications tied with a white-brown-black cable, with the top most having a spill of tea spot on it. He threw it on table towards us...around 100 applications...”in sab ka bhi phone aur laptop gum hua hai...aur bhi hain andar nikaalun...???”

He chuckled... He was proud of his own inability to act, to work for what he draw perks... Unbelievable at the age of 25 my blood pressure goes up... I turned my face towards my friends and  reacted "saala chutiya bna raha hai".....we demanded to meet senior officer ... Somehow we managed To meet him ... he refused to help us…but we got personal commitment (only cause all of my friend is army son including me) that the officer will try his best but no FIR...it really soaked me from inside and got to know the definition of inability...

I don't want to teach them how to act ...but being a technical and an electronics and telecommunication engineering guy...I know the world's easiest thing is to track a phone and laptop than searching for a human.. After all humans have not got GPS device mounted on their head... If our police system is incompetent to trace something with a track enabled services...how far can we expect ???.

Another event which took place with me, few days back I was coming back to home with my other six friends after completing a Bollywood movie police caught us as it was late night 12:40 Am... Police demanded money.. I have came across so many cases similar like this it's all cause of our decency, innocence and silence... I have faced All such events with Karnataka police.. ! No shit..! I even remember few dates and days.!

It is not only the police in our nations who use their power for things which really don't mean for them... this happens everywhere and every time..

It may be a minister of a state, it may be a policeman of Indian police services, it may be manager of a Corporate company, it may be an army officer of Indian army....it may be an elder of a family...it may be senior of a college... Out of all…few always use their power in unexpected way and they think as they are meant for it... ! Yes we are dominated by someone every time and everywhere...! You may be Shocked or surprised... But you have to accept the truth..!!

I don't want to blame any individual ...but its we...and We have to react and act..! We have to oppose wrong things... We have to fight...!

God Bless INDIA..

Let HER Live

This post is not against the men...! BUT A Question from All the Men on this Planet What kind of future we are expecting for our Mother, Sister, Friends, Wife and Daughters....????..
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Morning 5:00 Am., cold and fog...body was shivering...I was travelling with one of my inspirational senior from Narnaul (A village in Harayana) to the New Delhi (land where India's Daughter have been assaulted)...and topic which I heard from my senior was "India's daughter"... Almost years but she is still in tears... We all want her family to recover... I have seen Delhi burning on the name of "India's daughter".. We all want nation to recover... Than why documentary "India's Daughter"????


"Mujhe sharm aati hai ki mai aise desh me paida hua jaha aise log rahte hai"....(I am shameful that I born in a country where people like these stay) was the words used by my senior... Sincerely I too think same sometimes.. Meantime I am also proud that I stay in country where people like Bhagat Singh, Sandeep Unnikrishnan Born...where leader's like Mahendra Singh Dhoni leads...the only difference between thought process...we have to change it....I know what these people deserve... I know no country on this planet is happy... Not even Japan...every country have some problem...have own problem...but rape is not only  problem...it's against the dignity of humanity....there is no place for such people who is behind this....they don't deserve death...they deserve more than death.. They must be killed everyday...!

I remembered, when I use to chat with my X-girl... I use to tell her that i want a girl child in future after our marriage.. A sweet little princess (yes sometimes we talk about our future dreams.. Nothing funny in it... every time she disagrees.. She wants a boy...I always wondered why.????...and she keeps telling me...."Ritu,you will not understand " ....

Now i knw why... She is scared..Scared of everything she faces everyday... In her way to office... In her Cab....While her journey from Bangalore to Tumkur at 8PM...In the bus...in the train.. Everywhere... Being teased, touched, harassed... Only a girl or a woman knows how it feels to live in this kind of insecure feelings every moment... From the very first day of her puberty when she became conscious about her body... in the meantime she has to suffer and survive...survive From her relative (uncle) who tried to sexually harass her when she was 10...from the guys of a nearby her home who keeps teasing her day n night... From the daily passengers who tries to feel her flesh....from everyone... No one can justify the pain what women suffers during those wild attack..she not only loose her dignity but she looses her life.. She ends with her world... She regrets being a woman...she don't trust a word "trust"...!

Women is not just a piece of meat.. She is much more than that..Much more than her clothes.. Much more than her body.. And you much more than that also.. Don't objectify her..
............Nothing in this planet gives a right to anyone to touch a woman.,,nor marriage, neither the clothes she wear,., her character is not gift it's her choice...her body is hers not anyone's body...!!!
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Nothing wrong to see women. Really see them. Not just with your eyes, but with your heart. Don’t look to see something that tickles your senses, but see a human being. ..A woman’s body is beautiful and wonderful and mysterious... Respect it by respecting her as an individual with hopes and dreams and experiences and emotions and longings. Because in the end, all they want is a life Without fear of being judged, or shamed, or condemned, or objectified, or being treated as other. Women are not weaker than men. They are not the weaker sex. They are the other sex. Protect them..Respect them!


 to be... CONTINUED....!!!

Let IT "Go"

Sunday 2:30 Am,…Early morning or late night ….mobile vibrating continuously..... somehow I manage to drag my Lean but heavy-67Kg body till mobile...two miscall...six unread message in WatsApp “hello”,.. “Ritesh so raha hai tu ??”… ”yaar dhoka hua”...."bhai mai mar jaunga".."she ditched me"…”she is *****”....messages from one of my buddy who wanted to give up....!

Before I reply anything, I found my blood rushing towards my brain.. I always get fear after listing a word death... I tried to convince him...I asked simple question to my friend and youngster who is preparing for Civil Services (One of the toughest exam in the world) and it was …“What Is Life And Love” ??.. He gave me the excellent answer but was against my philosophy “Life is a war to achieve love and everything is fair on this mission even death”...I just replied "saale tu pagal ho gaya hai"...”******”…. I said “chhod na yaar...this is not end. This is not life after all…“sai mein yaar...life means more”...he somehow got convinced.

According to me, If this is a war, than it’s not about losing or winning…it is not about the failure or success...it’s not about having or not having.....it's not about desire or undesired...but It's about trying..! ...I believe it's happiness, it's experience...and if life is not happiness than death is not the end..! If death is end than why still people watch the movies of Amrish puri, Rajesh khanna..why people listen songs of Jagjeet Singh,  why people still want to copy the dance of Michael Jackson, why we still follow Mahatma Gandhi...why we want to be patriotic like Bhagat Singh..! Yes sometime death is not end it s start of life...! You will wonder I dint knew Steve Jobs the day he died I googled him and later thought to achieve like him.. Do you think it was the end of Steve Jobs.. No still he is in mind of the youngsters like me..! Yes an artist never dies..  And not only those big names are artist...! We all are the artist of our own life... We all are the CEO of our own Career..!!...

 

 I don't want to write about life I wanted to write about love...! Yes the love which youngsters of this nation do..! Yes the love for which people die, the love for which youngsters do suicide, yes the love for we always want to leave our everything behind us..! Yes the love for which honour killing occurs (still it exists in India)...

Why youngsters lose their life after falling in love ?? .why love birds die??? ... I have seen people blaming the nation, government of India, society and many more...! I say only their parents and they themselves are responsible for their death..! It is better to become misogynist rather than becoming a lover who later dies...misogynist even hate their death... This is not death, not even sacrifice..! They dies and are dead for us…others die yet keep on living for all!!!...love is a art but to become the artist of love you need to live....yes you have to live...!...I think everyone of us have felt once in love where we even demanded  death for ourselves only to get him/her.... If anyone says no..You really need a in-person meeting with me..!..

“Kis jamane me ji rahe hai hum sab??”….  Where nation is in hand of a 50+ year guy and the youngsters of nation dying on the name of Love..! If you have been offended or got pain in love..keep on moving..days will be better...you will find prince/ princess...as I said love is an art and you are an artist.. So, an artist always can paint better than before...!

To the parents of this nation if your kid loves let them love, let them live… Don't become orthodox…. be the kind person and help them to achieve their dreams..!

To the all the lovers….life goes on… Love is not only kiss, hug, sex and death….love is pure.. A sacrifice...a respect… a faith… a hope… a wait… an encouragement … a motivation… a temperament…a world… a belief… a chase… a true journey… a promise…a reward… an achievement....a passion… Love is alcohol addiction only one reason to do it or not to do it…Love is not a smile…it is the sacrifice to earn that smile….Fight for love if it's not in your hand. Let it go...look for other things…other opportunity..!!

Summary- I have seen lot of youngsters spoiling life and career, suffering and crying cause of love..! They need mental support..! If you find anyone help them to fight..!

“God Bless Lovers”

Live In The "Present"

When I wrote one of the hardest ever article of my life and most controversial too "money can buy love". seriously being the youngster of a growing nation like India i was following the spirit of society and other youngsters... I was so future conscious that i was thinking about money...!!!

My dad is not a big follower of my articles...but he always reflects on my speech.. he knows what i am talking and what it will result into... Every time when i opened my mouth i got to know that its difficult to fight with a man who has more experience than my age, serving the nation and fighting with enemies. I always RESPECT his philosophy even though we both have different kind of thought processes.. I say “Time and tide waits for none” and he says “Sabar ka fal meetha hota hai”...!

He spoke against my last article...he gave me an example where power was dominating money.. All Indian eyes were on Barack Obama, when he visited India...The Capital of INDIA (New Delhi) was proud to welcome the honorable President of USA and the First Lady. People were interested in his car, Rajpath was eagerly waiting for Mr.Obama. The youngsters of India were looking for some new opportunities, new deals, new business... and lot of expectation from each and every person of India... every one including me was expecting something and watching the movement of Barack Obama.. what my dad noticed is power of power... yes he was watching the Class and Respect of POWER ...I don't know how many of you have noticed our great business men standing in queue only to meet Barrack Obama... you need guts to become an entrepreneur, to earn money... yet everyone was waiting for Barack Obama, its because of his power.I am not against Entrepreneurship, I am a big lover, but whats wrong if an youngster dreams to come in power become a president or a prime minister of a leading nation…!

Truly my dad wants me to believe in present.. Neither in future nor of past... just the PRESENT. Courageous thought of a man in white and black hair at the age of 50+...

I live a very conservative life..i convert thoughts into actions..i respect future...

His thought says Live as if there is no tomorrow, No senseless transactions... don't take present for granted...do your best in present.. live in the present who knows "Kal Ho Naa Ho"... never regret and never become too proud cause when life breaks your back it brings tears."Future is unknown, future is uncertainty, future Is fear....If any one says he knows his or her future..I am open for arguments..! I am ready to break the bones..ha..ha.ha..he..

Summary- I always say that don't think about past.. Today I will say don't think about future..! Luck is important..but, You will get everything what u want and what you deserve.. So enjoy your present.. Trust and believe yourself...work and work hard.. Enjoy life... Cause Life "A" True Journey..

"God Bless Planet"...! LIVE and Love..!

Money Can Buy LOVE...?

A random question from one of my sweetest buddy, “can money buy love?” My reply was YES money can buy LOVE…

My answer may make/made you to think that I am talking shit….you may give dammn but by the end of this blog you will realize shit exists and shit happens...! ...I know there are different perceptions on this topic yet you will agree with my statement….

From past 3 months my friend was unknowingly serving an old lady by giving her a biscuit packet or at time a coin of Rs.5 on daily basis…. Yesterday we wanted to have some conversation with her so we went but that lady was unable to communicate with us as she only knows Kannada language and we don't… later we pulled over one of our local friend to start conversation with her, she said c loves a person who always donates biscuits or Money to her.. "I tried different ways, I gave her very motivational speech, I tried to give her sympathy"... I thought she might love me but she only wanted to love a person who gives her money… And yes it was my friend who was sitting next to me..!

I still remember one moment which happened with me. Few days back I called my ex-girl just to know how she is and what's happening in her life.....Shockingly I got to know her orthodox family give her a choice to choose one guy out of many they selected for her marriage... She finalized a guy who is an NRI and who have lots of money. I sincerely asked why she want to marry only this guy.... she hopefully replied what I was expecting, I would definitely choose future which is secure with a hubby + money. In-turn she wants to buy love... She herself agreed with her own word that may be the money of her husband can buy love for her..!

Recently I went to the local orphanage with my few of my buddies, we donated blanket, bed sheets etc…. The head of orphanage was happy but when we paid few thousand bucks in addition, the head was happier and he replied... all child's love you..!

Simple but true this society made us the biggest dependents of Money, we were and we are the biggest ever lover of money and we dramatically changed or learned to buy love with the help of money.!

We went so down that even in temples while giving donations we ask God that we want bla..bla..bla.. Yes we want to buy love there also...!

Summary: "The one who pays, gains"….Even love can be bought..!