This post is not against the men...! BUT A Question from All the Men on this
Planet What kind of future we are expecting for our Mother, Sister, Friends, Wife and
Daughters....????..
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Morning 5:00 Am., cold and fog...body was shivering...I was travelling with one of my inspirational senior from Narnaul (A village in Harayana) to the New Delhi (land where India's Daughter have been assaulted)...and topic which I heard from my senior was "India's daughter"... Almost years but she is still in tears... We all want her family to recover... I have seen Delhi burning on the name of "India's daughter".. We all want nation to recover... Than why documentary "India's Daughter"????
"Mujhe sharm aati hai ki mai aise desh me paida hua jaha aise log rahte hai"....(I am shameful that I born in a country where people like these stay) was the words used by my senior... Sincerely I too think same sometimes.. Meantime I am also proud that I stay in country where people like Bhagat Singh, Sandeep Unnikrishnan Born...where leader's like Mahendra Singh Dhoni leads...the only difference between thought process...we have to change it....I know what these people deserve... I know no country on this planet is happy... Not even Japan...every country have some problem...have own problem...but rape is not only problem...it's against the dignity of humanity....there is no place for such people who is behind this....they don't deserve death...they deserve more than death.. They must be killed everyday...!
I remembered, when I use to chat with my X-girl... I use to tell her that i want a girl child in future after our marriage.. A sweet little princess (yes sometimes we talk about our future dreams.. Nothing funny in it... every time she disagrees.. She wants a boy...I always wondered why.????...and she keeps telling me...."Ritu,you will not understand " ....
Now i knw why... She is scared..Scared of everything she faces everyday... In her way to office... In her Cab....While her journey from Bangalore to Tumkur at 8PM...In the bus...in the train.. Everywhere... Being teased, touched, harassed... Only a girl or a woman knows how it feels to live in this kind of insecure feelings every moment... From the very first day of her puberty when she became conscious about her body... in the meantime she has to suffer and survive...survive From her relative (uncle) who tried to sexually harass her when she was 10...from the guys of a nearby her home who keeps teasing her day n night... From the daily passengers who tries to feel her flesh....from everyone... No one can justify the pain what women suffers during those wild attack..she not only loose her dignity but she looses her life.. She ends with her world... She regrets being a woman...she don't trust a word "trust"...!
Women is not just a piece of meat.. She is much more than that..Much more than her clothes.. Much more than her body.. And you much more than that also.. Don't objectify her..
............Nothing in this planet gives a right to anyone to touch a woman.,,nor marriage, neither the clothes she wear,., her character is not gift it's her choice...her body is hers not anyone's body...!!!
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Nothing wrong to see women. Really see them. Not just with your eyes, but with your heart. Don’t look to see something that tickles your senses, but see a human being. ..A woman’s body is beautiful and wonderful and mysterious... Respect it by respecting her as an individual with hopes and dreams and experiences and emotions and longings. Because in the end, all they want is a life Without fear of being judged, or shamed, or condemned, or objectified, or being treated as other. Women are not weaker than men. They are not the weaker sex. They are the other sex. Protect them..Respect them!
to be... CONTINUED....!!!
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Morning 5:00 Am., cold and fog...body was shivering...I was travelling with one of my inspirational senior from Narnaul (A village in Harayana) to the New Delhi (land where India's Daughter have been assaulted)...and topic which I heard from my senior was "India's daughter"... Almost years but she is still in tears... We all want her family to recover... I have seen Delhi burning on the name of "India's daughter".. We all want nation to recover... Than why documentary "India's Daughter"????
"Mujhe sharm aati hai ki mai aise desh me paida hua jaha aise log rahte hai"....(I am shameful that I born in a country where people like these stay) was the words used by my senior... Sincerely I too think same sometimes.. Meantime I am also proud that I stay in country where people like Bhagat Singh, Sandeep Unnikrishnan Born...where leader's like Mahendra Singh Dhoni leads...the only difference between thought process...we have to change it....I know what these people deserve... I know no country on this planet is happy... Not even Japan...every country have some problem...have own problem...but rape is not only problem...it's against the dignity of humanity....there is no place for such people who is behind this....they don't deserve death...they deserve more than death.. They must be killed everyday...!
I remembered, when I use to chat with my X-girl... I use to tell her that i want a girl child in future after our marriage.. A sweet little princess (yes sometimes we talk about our future dreams.. Nothing funny in it... every time she disagrees.. She wants a boy...I always wondered why.????...and she keeps telling me...."Ritu,you will not understand " ....
Now i knw why... She is scared..Scared of everything she faces everyday... In her way to office... In her Cab....While her journey from Bangalore to Tumkur at 8PM...In the bus...in the train.. Everywhere... Being teased, touched, harassed... Only a girl or a woman knows how it feels to live in this kind of insecure feelings every moment... From the very first day of her puberty when she became conscious about her body... in the meantime she has to suffer and survive...survive From her relative (uncle) who tried to sexually harass her when she was 10...from the guys of a nearby her home who keeps teasing her day n night... From the daily passengers who tries to feel her flesh....from everyone... No one can justify the pain what women suffers during those wild attack..she not only loose her dignity but she looses her life.. She ends with her world... She regrets being a woman...she don't trust a word "trust"...!
Women is not just a piece of meat.. She is much more than that..Much more than her clothes.. Much more than her body.. And you much more than that also.. Don't objectify her..
............Nothing in this planet gives a right to anyone to touch a woman.,,nor marriage, neither the clothes she wear,., her character is not gift it's her choice...her body is hers not anyone's body...!!!
.
Nothing wrong to see women. Really see them. Not just with your eyes, but with your heart. Don’t look to see something that tickles your senses, but see a human being. ..A woman’s body is beautiful and wonderful and mysterious... Respect it by respecting her as an individual with hopes and dreams and experiences and emotions and longings. Because in the end, all they want is a life Without fear of being judged, or shamed, or condemned, or objectified, or being treated as other. Women are not weaker than men. They are not the weaker sex. They are the other sex. Protect them..Respect them!
to be... CONTINUED....!!!
