Sunday 2:30 Am,…Early morning or late night ….mobile vibrating continuously..... somehow I manage to drag my Lean but heavy-67Kg body till mobile...two miscall...six unread message in WatsApp “hello”,.. “Ritesh so raha hai tu ??”… ”yaar dhoka hua”...."bhai mai mar jaunga".."she ditched me"…”she is *****”....messages from one of my buddy who wanted to give up....!
Before I reply anything, I found my blood rushing towards my brain.. I always get scared after listing a word death... I tried to convince him...I asked simple question to my friend and youngster who is preparing for Civil Services (One of the toughest exam in the world) and it was …“What Is Life And Love” ??.. He gave me the excellent answer but was against my philosophy “Life is a war to achieve love and everything is fair on this mission even death”...I just replied "saale tu pagal ho gaya hai"...”******”…. I said “chhod na yaar...this is not end. This is not life after all…“sai mein yaar...life means more”...he somehow got convinced.
According to me, If this is a war, than it’s not about losing or winning…it is not about the failure or success...it’s not about having or not having.....it's not about desire or undesired...but It's about trying..! ...I believe it's happiness, it's experience...and if life is not happiness than death is not the end..! If death is end than why still people watch the movies of Amrish puri, Rajesh khanna..why people listen songs of Jagjeet Singh, why people still want to copy the dance of Michael Jackson, why we still follow Mahatma Gandhi...why we want to be patriotic like Bhagat Singh..! Yes sometime death is not end it s start of life...! You will wonder I dint knew Steve Jobs the day he died I googled him and later thought to achieve like him.. Do you think it was the end of Steve Jobs.. No still he is in mind of the youngsters like me..! Yes an artist never dies.. And not only those big names are artist...! We all are the artist of our own life... We all are the CEO of our own Career..!!...
I don't want to write about life I wanted to write about love...! Yes the love which youngsters of this nation do..! Yes the love for which people die, the love for which youngsters do suicide, yes the love for we always want to leave our everything behind us..! Yes the love for which honour killing occurs (still it exists in India)...
Why youngsters lose their life after falling in love ?? .why love birds die??? ... I have seen people blaming the nation, government of India, society and many more...! I say only their parents and they themselves are responsible for their death..! It is better to become misogynist rather than becoming a lover who later dies...misogynist even hate their death... This is not death, not even sacrifice..! They dies and are dead for us…others die yet keep on living for all!!!...love is a art but to become the artist of love you need to live....yes you have to live...!...I think everyone of us have felt once in love where we even demanded death for ourselves only to get him/her.... If anyone says no..You really need a in-person meeting with me..!..
“Kis jamane me ji rahe hai hum sab??”…. Where nation is in hand of a 50+ year guy and the youngsters of nation dying on the name of Love..! If you have been offended or got pain in love..keep on moving..days will be better...you will find prince/ princess...as I said love is an art and you are an artist.. So, an artist always can paint better than before...!
To the parents of this nation if your kid loves let them love, let them live… Don't become orthodox…. be the kind person and help them to achieve their dreams..!
To the all the lovers….life goes on… Love is not only kiss, hug, sex and death….love is pure.. A sacrifice...a respect… a faith… a hope… a wait… an encouragement … a motivation… a temperament…a world… a belief… a chase… a true journey… a promise…a reward… an achievement....a passion… Love is alcohol addiction only one reason to do it or not to do it…Love is not a smile…it is the sacrifice to earn that smile….Fight for love if it's not in your hand. Let it go...look for other things…other opportunity..!!
Summary- I have seen lot of youngsters spoiling life and career, suffering and crying cause of love..! They need mental support..! If you find anyone help them to fight..!
“God Bless Lovers”
Read my upcoming article "Search of Partner"
Read my upcoming article "Search of Partner"
