Pain Of A Lover

A Common Story:

“I was a carefree young boy and used to solve mathematics problems…(till engineering 2^nd year)…

I met a girl fall in love and started giving suggestions to others for love, became love guru… (from engineering 3^rd year to few years back)…

AND NOW I AM TRYING TO HIDE MY LOVE PAIN, YES I BECAME PHILOSOPHER.

Kindly don’t read……. “If you haven’t loved someone truly”.

Few days back, I was sitting in CCD with some beautiful girl, we had very strong conversation and at last she asked me “your x is very lucky”….that moment I smiled, went back to my home and cried….

I met my x after more than 1 year– she asked if she will get option she will only choose me (its long story but i am not in hers list)… to keep her heart, that moment I smiled, back to home and cried….

I was sitting in office cafeteria with a casual friend and on sip of tea we shared some our past secrets. After listing mine secret She said “interesting, you are the person whom should I date”… that moment I smiled, walked out from cafeteria back to my desk and cried...

Bengaluru, BMTC Volvo….. I plugged earphone…adjusted my ear piece and singer sung something

“Dahleez pe mere dil ki,

Jo rakhe hain tune qadam,
Tere naam pe meri zindagi
Likh di mere hamdam,
Ha seeka maine Jeena jeena kaise jeena………”

Don’t know song touched my heart or not but tears fell on the floor of Bus, the girl sitting next to me in Volvo smelled my tears instead of smelling my deo and asked me “if, I am alright ?”….i smiled with wet eyes and replied “I am good”...I remembered her whom I loved….meanwhile next song automatically played and I caught only one line of next song “guzarta sa lamhaa ek daaman bhar gaya”…as singer is trying to point something and I got stuck…

You must have heard about Break-up…but a lover suffers more after breakup…some wise man said “never add your personal and professional life”…my personal experience says personal life is backbone for professional life….I have been team lead almost for more than 1 year now and I have seen youngsters in my team suffering and fighting in professional life because of problems in personal life…to lead a happy life, one must need to manage both……!!!!

Every relationship start with love later ends with breakup, drama, pain and bla..bla.….at last he or she ends up saying guy/girl is responsible for everything….the biggest pain in life is self-realization that “I have destroyed life of someone special. I am sure no one feels good after knowing that you are the reason for someone's destruction”….it always pains…

At last what I say: "Zindagi do pal ki"...who knows "Kal ho na ho"...Life is a full of surprise. Who knows when and where surprise is death. ...So live every moment, life is too short to be unhappy no matter what.... So,Better to live a happy life no matter what. A happy life lived is most remembered.... Always remember, you are not old till you can breath, give time to yourself come out from pain and enjoy the fresh romance...

Silence can be a strong weapon to convey your pain… A relationship is not just about love or affection or care, it is about level of sacrifice and pain you suffered to keep relationship alive…Let your x go… nothing can be best than Sacrificing your love for your own love. “ishq sacha wahi jisko milti nahi manjil”.!!!

……too be continued .

Dedicated to all who says “Hamari Adhuri Kahaani”

TRUST

Today generation:-
I don't trust any men, you know all men’s are same (voice of women)...!!!
Bhai ye women’s sab ek jaisi hoti hai, inpe trust karna hi nahi chaiye (voice of men)....!!!
Question to all those men and woman who said above sentence at least once in their life -please answer me… Why because of one, you imagined all are same and if everyone is same why the hell you tried all..?? If you have answer and may prove your point you can ping me in whatsapp and i can give you surety next i will publish your story soon...!!! If you can't than please don't say above words again...!!

What is TRUST???(A question asked by my friend)
I know you have answer....I too have and I replied "A word which we all use in daily life"...at least 10 Times in day. Nowadays, TRUST is nothing else than a word..!! We forgot the meaning of it...we don't respect it anymore....we don't care...!
Trust is -
1.When Indian-Cricket team goes to play world cup and we sitting in home hope MSD won't make us down...that hope is trust.
2. When a father throws a kid up in the air and catches him back...the laugh of kid is trust.
3. When a girl walks with a guy in mid-night or sits in park with him...that smile of girl is trust.
4. When a mom stays far from son/daughter and eagerly waits for his/her call…that wait of mom is trust.
5. When one blindly loves other…that love is trust.
6. When a beautiful marries a stranger and go to his house… that belief is trust.
7. When a sister and brother care for each other... that care is trust.
8. When a student writes an exam and fails and writes it again...that try is trust.
9. Early morning when i stepped in a park, on the front gate every day i found a helpless man- no money, no identity, no individuality, not even enough food and shelter, nothing to cheer up....but still he breath… that breath is trust.
10. A youngster fall in love he or she apparently ditched by opposite sex and cries full day/night...that tears is trust

In above all cases you know whom we trust...it's individual; yes it's not we... It's me and you…

We all trust someone someday, but somewhere in life we all lose that trust..!!  Now, question is whose mistake? 
It's not about whose mistake....it may be anyone mistake...! But why it happened? , its cause either your choice were wrong or you yourself is wrong.....! In maximum case we point others rather pointing ourselves......!!!


What kind of person we can trust???
The simple logic to trust people is: - Initially, Never trust the one who is superior/elder to you. Such type of person will leave you in between. Never trust the person who is less/younger than you, he/she will give their helpful hands to someone breaking your promises. Try to trust the person who holds a same spirit, desire, choice and dreams like you. Don't trust anyone easily. Let the time reveal you the real them. Anyone makes a mistake and that's vital. Even I do mistakes and i’m a very caring person. Whenever a person become a part of your life, trust them, but not with your feelings. Trust them with your mind; trust them because that's the right thing to do, not because you feel that you can trust them....!!!!

My philosophy says...I still don’t have answers to those questions, which I already answered. Cause in the journey of trust i may failed while trusting people or people hurted me the way they wanted… which seriously made those moments memorable for my entire life...I have to live with those unfortunates trust on them... Nothing to hit on, it came back on me.  “What makes us live??”It’s only TRUST which keep us ALIVE...Trust is Future...!!!

God Bless "Untrustworthy human"


P.S- This was due for long.Thanks Shilpa for motivating me to write on this topic...!! Stay tuned, my upcoming articles "Pain of A lover" and "Getting married”

Being "BANGALOREAN"

Do they Cook only rice items ???
Is it a land of black beauty/girls ???
Don't they speak Hindi ???
Do they hate North Indians ???

No to “late party”, Night life sucks ???
Are they caste oriented and orthodox ???
And most important do they worship Ravana instead of Rama ???

Give me break...above said is fake…!!!!

In July 2006, I landed on the land which people called South India (to readers I am not biasing India on the name of south or north it’s just my experience)…..Yelahanka railway station one of my favorite place…. Moment I got down and I heard a voice asking “Nivu yellige hogabekku ?”, it came from an auto driver…..I gave a confused and tough look….but my dad who was standing next to me replied to him “Hamari Army ki gypsy aa rahi hai, usi ka wait kar rahe hai”….. he said something back in kannada…..we ignored

What was next….my first outing after 2 months when I joined college…. I studied Diploma from BSF IT (the institute which is made for only defense/paramilitary force kids …) the strict discipline of college not only made me sportsman and badass but also taught me to avoid locals/Bangaloreans…. My first trip to BMTC bus from Yelahanka to Majestic (KBS)…..conductor asked “tikech..tikech” instead of ticket I replied “kannad gotiyalla”….. frankly he said something which sounded like abusing me…I argued but my local friend/hubli guy who was standing next to me said bhai its “kannada gotiyalla” not “kannad gotiyalla”……….for new comers never say “kannad gotiyalla” if u say so then run quickly or they will break your legs…….my first intraction with bangaloraens made me to avoid Bangaloreans….Hence to avoid Bangaloreans I learned the word “kannada gotiyalla”…..trust me anyone who comes to blore first time they learn “kannada gotiyalla, “uutaa aiytaaa”, "Chill maadi" and few other things which I don’t want to describe......i avoided Bangaloreans for 3 yrs its not because I wanted to but its because I dint find much Bangalorean in my circle….as my college mates were from different parts of India and son of Indian armed forces…..

In Aug 2009, I landed on Tumkur leaving all my friends in blore….an unknown place and first day what I liked waa SSIT Library and nothing else…..(read my upcoming article SSIT,Tumkur)…..somehow I survived in Tumkur for 3yrs….transformation took place I met with so many Kannadiga, whom I made experienced hindi speaker including my x girl…they too tried and taught me “swalpa swalpa” kanadda…I remember a day when my friend asked me my IPL fav Team, I said CSK..he replied “wht the fuck, why don’t you shift to Chennai”…jokes apart he is one of my best friend who support Bangalore team…

In Feb, 2014…I was fed up and decided to move to New Delhi (Capital of India)…I landed there and came back in Aug 2014…the love and smell of Bangalore pulled me back...

Today after 9+ yrs of stay in Karnataka (Bangalore+Tumkur), when I look at myself….I feel this land has transferred me from a kid to gentleman…I am addicted to Bangalore's  Weather, OrionMall, MG road, Toit, Marathali Bridge, Chai Points, SankeyTank, Bengaluru Marathon, Strivers Cricket Club, Malleswaram , JP nagar, Bangalore Girls, Karnataka culture and many more….

Bangaloreans are awesome when I address them as Anna, they address me back as Bhai…when I had been to their house they prepared chapatti-sabji for me instead of idly-samber…I still remember the day when I visited my x-girl house, her mom took almost 2hrs to cook special dish for me instead of dosha…my other friend's mom cooked chicken for me instead of offering me ragi-mude…..trust me i never liked ragi-mude so wenever i feel sad, I desperately eat South Indian Dish Ragi Mude, Which make me to realize there is something more bitter than my sadness....

My thanks to all the wonderful people in Bangalore or blood of Karnataka for helping me and giving me opportunity to grow in Bangalore….to all the New people in Bengaluru... It’s not inevitable to learn Kannada in Bengaluru, but it'll make your life a bit easy.....

Dedicated to “Kannada Rajatosava”

Stay tuned my upcoming articles: “SSIT Tumkur” and “BSF IT Bangalore”

Women in my life...!!!

The idea is not mine to write on this topic....it's one of my friend who insisted me to write on "women ruled in my life" but I edited and changed  it to "women in my life" as I just crossed 25 years of my life and that too only with 7yrs of mature mind therefore how I can say women ruled in my life, so below are some Gems of my life....who are responsible for my transformation from Kid to Boy, Boy to Man, Man to True Man and True man to GENTLEMAN....if you are of my age I am sure you have come across these ladies……

My Mom- She is Neither a programmer nor a marketing Executive…. my mom is a teacher who taught school kids during her 20’s.......credit goes to my dad defense job due to which today she Can understand and speak more than 5 Indian languages and travelled almost whole part of India with Dad…. I can say she is the sweetest lady, Pearl of wisdom whom I treat as God....when I recall my school days.... I remember the days when she used to prepare three Tiffin like a super-mom within 20-30 mints of time that's too in the coldest winter of Jammu & Kashmir...she is empathetic, sensible, tender… I found her crying while watching movies and TV series like Kumkum, Kasam Se and many more…… and today when i  am 25+ and a grown up kid, the world has changed a lot for me but mom is and will remain same.
I love you mom ...!!!

My Sister- My first friend on planet with whom I still share my secrets....the phenomenal lady who left job and decided to earn degree as much as she can.....best part she's counting.....today even after her two little princess she still loves studying with her daughters......i always enjoy our fights and sharing funny secrets, I stolen her diaries and read her diaries, annoyed her and later she invariably end up loving me....sister is the Best creation of relation on earth... I remember sometimes when my Dad used to scold me...she is the one who used to cry with me...when I used to say "I will die"...she used to follow my spirit "I will also die with you".... !!! I love you my stupid Sister…!!

My Grandma- “Old is Gold”…..I born Hindu but she is the one who taught me "God is one".

The person behind my spirituality is my grandma…. My humbleness and respect to elders is precious teaching given by my grandma to me due to which i always have a blessing of my elders….I still remember the days when she used to take Care of me with her tender heart and soul....her soft hands on my chins, her lap and unique way to feed food to me. I know she will be still worried about my health, food in heaven...!! I miss you "Dadi"..!!!

My Aunt(s)- I came across number of Aunts in my life as my family used to relocate in every 3 years due to dad job, hence  all aunt performed like CEO in my career...all of them encourage me always to score good not cause of motivational speech but cause of Fear of society….. Heartily respect all of them and hope wherever my aunts are…they all will be happy with their families…!!!

My Friends (Girls)- list never ends... And moreover don’t want to bias anyone…hope I may write about few in future...

My Girl- Not in mood to write now…some other day….!!!

Memories are countless with the above ladies and still on count......the good thing is they all born out of the selfless love and care and even if they scold us, it’s all for our good......!!!

Big thanks to Alexander Graham Bell who keep me connecting with these people every day except diamond in life (grandma)... Kudos @Priyanka for helping me to write this....!!!!

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Stay tuned my upcoming blogs/articles: “Being Bangalorean” and "Trust"

"Ek Tha Engineer"

1. Jo samajh na aaye.... Declare it out of course..

2. Har semester ke end mein ye elaan karna ke agla semester start hote hi padhna hai..

3. Apna cell off kar ke padhna aur 5-5 minute baad on kar ke dekhna ki koi msg to nhi aaya??

4. Group study ke dauran baar-baar ye kahna ke 'ab kisi ne koi bakwaas ki to gaaliya khayega'

5. Padhne se pehle pages count karna aur phir "chor yaar ab mood nhi hora Kall se pakkkaa padhai shuruuu..

Finally u caught me, Yes Correct!!  I am talking about engineers or an engineering students....I am in mood to talk about engineer...The reason is nowadays it's not a profession it's a product... You can find them anywhere or everywhere...

They are Career oriented ???-In India "Ppl first complete engineering later they decide what actually they want to do"..here ppl born as engineer "ladka hua to engineer and ladki huyi to doctor"... I want to prove this.. I was recently travelling from Chennai to Bangalore.. I found few youngsters selling tea and vadapav outside railway station…..The way they were communicating made me to ask their education background.. They both sincerely replied "They are Engineers"....you will find engineers becoming a model, actor, actress, author, writer, sportsman-woman, politicians, entrepreneurs…Yes unemployment sucks and it totally affects the career of an engineer.. I remembered one of my closest friend scored 9 pointer in engineering from India's top most institute's and remained unemployed for several months….I remembered myself scored 8 pointer and holds sports certificates still initially was unable to search a good job for myself...I have seen engineers working for bucks in range of Rs.8-10 thousands…. Still India s producing engineers….still Indian families want to make their kids engineer...less Jobs, unemployment..then y this degree..???.. Y u are producing engineers???.. to make them working as a labour or to insult the person.!!..or to play with someone feeling.!!. To challenge someone self respect..."" ??????..I may be rude..you may give a damn..you may talk shit..I don't mind...I am ready for open ended questions..I am open for argument...

They are subject oriented?? .."you have to believe ".. They read approx 50 subjects in the journey of 4 years.. , I think Albert Einstein won noble prize for contributing his effort towards physics.. If I am correct... . But no engineer appreciated his effort during 4 year of course.. But whenever engineers came across physics…almost all engineers criticized him once .. There is one more subject called Biology...it's not in the course of engineering.. But an engineer can become a Best biology teacher or a sex-pert ...sometime they are also known as love guru...ha..ha. Breakup is like a new movie in Bollywood for them which releases every Friday....

Best part about being an engineer?-Nothing in the world is "magic" anymore.  You understand how the computer works and why that mouse can come up on your screen.  You understand how your air conditioning works, and why buildings are built the way they are. You can marvel at how much time something took, or how interesting that someone chose to design something that way.  But at the same time, you can't just look back and say "wow, it's amazing that people can do things like that."  And you can't watch anything sciencey on TV without your overactive bull-crap detector going off like mad...yes it is done by the engineers...engineers are one who convert an Innovation into reality….

If you read my blogs carefully in starting I said engineers are products... Yes cause they can fit in any shape and can be used in Any domain or industry.. I have seen-  mechanical engineers writing java codes.. civil engineers working in telecom industry.. Computer science engineers working in Tech support or BPO....nowadays engineers are a product not a profession...:)

Summary: Today we are in the era where we can easily hear that "Ek tha Bhagat Singh", "Ek tha Gandhi", "Ek thi Sone ki chidiya", "Ek Tha Sandeep unnikrishnan", "Ek tha Nehru"......

And if it continues in the same way ….. So, after 5 years….You will listen "Ek Tha Engineer"

Start-Up Sucks??

EVERY ONE WANT TO FOLLOW THEIR OWN DREAMS….ha..ha..he..he…I was just kidding….so truth is only few want to follow their own dreams remaining want to work for other dream…. The silliest part which our youngster is following nowadays, its start-up or Entrepreneurship…. We all think, how cool these founders of startup are….how simple their life is…..did really they work???.... what they loose-Nothing???...

Today in every company….out of 4 people who sits in cubical…2 are Co-founders of stratup…. Being a founder/Co-founder, Why the hell they still sits in other company and work for someone else dream… reason may be many…but few may be like.. they want to impress GF, parents and bla..bla…. RIP to dreams of my two closest friend… ..Co-Founders of Foodman-Bangalore “company died in 2 months only.. after inauguration…. I know they will be sitting in cubical of some company and might be planning some idea to explore for new Start-Up….. 

Entrepreneurship is not only passion for few people its addiction like having romance with GF every weekend… and such people never give up on their dreams…they don’t think for failure…they try and they keep on trying…they fail or pass doesn’t matter to them….only matters is “NO REGRET”….!!!!

If you are planning to start own….if you want to explore or innovate…. If you want to know the life of a startup junkie…if you want to see the pain of entrepreneur…

You must watch: TVF Pitchers: The Only Indian Show At IMDb Top 250 and The Best Comedy Drama Series Of India. http://tvfplay.com/show/detail/14/Pitchers (Follow the Link)....If you want the downloaded version you can contact me too…..

9 Things you will learn after watching TVF Pitchers…

1.             Everything looks possible when we are drunk…a beer bar is best place to innovate ideas…a beer bottle can produce best example in the world…

2.            To make any decision for a married person is much harder than others….so, try to innovate when you are single..

3.            Every Big decision needs lots of sacrifices….present becomes X…and parents are always right….lol…

4.        Arrange marriage is sometimes more successful than love….only if woman understands you…

5.            A man can never convince a woman who gives him… love/Sex….if need clarification try it….

6.        There is always a friend who is simple, silly and ignored in group….kool they are funniest and very important….

7.            A person who is more kool, is like a hot volcano which can erupt anytime…..need to agree

8.            Song which we and our friends sing along to cheer us up.” Wo sikandar hi dosto kehlata hai”

9.            Never give up-After all the downfall, all the sacrifices, all their strong efforts, so much of fights one thing which is admirable about them is that they Never gave Up and they always support each other. And that makes them finally to reach their destination……

“God Bless Start-Up Founders”

What I feel About Entrepreneurship is all about! The willingness to take Risks!

You can also read my previous article on entrepreneurship:

http://leadbhardwaj.blogspot.in/2014/12/entrepreneurship-and-startup-is-pain.html

Log Kya Kahenge

You passed...You failed.....You won....you lost... Doesn't matter... Here what matter is "log kya kahenge ???"....

Why the f*ck I born ???

Can I create employment for nation???

I can go for extraordinary or should I live like an ordinary man???

Above Questions popped in mind......and I resigned company...Bye To A corporate classy job....The day I resigned next day I got call from a manager of a leading company to join his team....I rejected the proposal saying if I need his help I will get back to him... my friends started commenting and criticizing...what the he'll m doing?  Y I quit regular job? Whats wrong with me??  And so many words against me... The reason May be anything....but I want to follow my passion..... Trust me there are so many people who work for others dream rather than working for their own dreams....!!!! People may talk anything but I thot to follow my dreams  and Give a try (it's good to regret after trying rather than not taking any risk) and started working on 2 start-up ideas with the help of few good ppl, foundation of strong team and of course agreement with few good software companies...!!

Life is short so do what u want to rather what others want you to do.!!

You know what stop us to follow own dreams.. It's only log kya kahenge....Let me start with a small story... Few months back, I went to school to pick my sister daughter....I found a lady scolding a kid of age around 5 yrs... I went close to her and asked "what hppnd ??"... She said her son scored less marks in exams.... I just smiled and replied madam it's okay next time he will do better... She said it's okay for us too but log kya kahenge?... I had a strong argument with lady...I give back for ppl who talk shit.... But sorry to Say after all  the lady wanted to follow the spirit of log not mine... I think My sister baby understood that what I wanted to say and she told Me "mamu I scored good marks hamare log kuch nahi kahenge chale"....we both smiled and walked towards home.....

Trust me only few people live for their passion remaining just compromise with dreams saying log kya kahenge....

Its your life. Run, scream, laugh, cry with joy. Do whatever the hell you want. How does it matter for people who don't have their own dream....?

To all those people who thinks for infinity and have dream to do extraordinary If you have any idea start working on it. I am open for new opportunity and looking myself to explore with start-ups...! Reach me if you think your ideas may make difference in world..!!!

"God Bless Log"

My next article "Start-up Sucks"

GOD

This was due for long....I wanted to write it when I watched movie PK... Character of my life is neither to be Aamir Khan of movie "PK" nor to be Akshay Kumar of movie "OMG" so I delayed it... I knew, Writings must be targeted at readers. I knew that this topic would never find a reader...But I was electrified when I read my Whatsapp ."Bhagwan hi sath nahi hai"....also being one of the human and knowing my culture..I don't think I deserve to write on this topic....God??  Who is God?  Where he/she stays?  Is he/she in prayers?  ...seriously don't know....!!!! If you find, tell about my prayers too....!!!

I remember few days back when I met an old friend.....I behaved like counselor for 1 hr..... her story is common like the other few youngsters of nation …She is in love <3 with a gentleman since almost 4 yrs.. According to her she prayed for him daily.... But now she is going to get marry some other guy... And when I asked her why? She said it's “God wish”.... I asked her what she want? Reply I got is whatever God want...!! I am highly spiritual and a true believer of God....but I learned God gives what we want.. For what we work... If there is something called destiny then everyone destiny is "As Your Wish"....it's we who dream and work for it and if we won't get what we desire ....is not God wish.... But it's compromise with the effort and hard work... To all those on this planet if you are dependent on God start working...learn to give your effort.!! You will succeed..!!

I am not open for any argument and debate...!!


"God Bless God"

Divine on Earth- MOM

Yesterday Late night 11PM..... Frustrated, tensed and was missing something, it's story of mine.... I went to mirror, looked in it and asked a question to myself reason of sadness...?? Reason of my sadness... ?? is it cause my start-up idea is not functioning??  is it cause of not having GF??  is it cause of not going for trip?? Is it cause of knee pain after marathon??... Reason may be all but being an youngster of a leading country like India where population itself describe the competition if you are worried about above things....better suggestion “find a chair...give rest to your **s”..!!!!
I remembered sentence of my senior who always motivated me saying "if you have pain...wait for good time...have patience and you will get something better"..he may be a good philosopher but I follow different philosophy and it's “find the reason behind pain, take medicine and kill the pain ASAP”.....
After all, I realized that the reason behind my pain/sadness is "I dint talk to my Mom since last one week”.. what next???...11:30 PM…And I rang a number a sweet lady picked the call before I could speak.. She said.."kya hua, nind nahi aa rahi " ??....I just replied "aapki yaad aa rahi thi"...her logical answer "to aaja ghar".... I said "chhuti nahi milti"....she loves Bollywood and replied in same way.....”Sanjay dutt ko jail se har mahine chhuti mil jati hai, tu to engineer hai private company me kaam karta hai...tujhe kyun nahi???”.... She made me emotional and before mu tears come out I laughed loudly...!!!

My strong belief that all moms are similar... I think mom is not human…She is god...You know y, They teach us to walk, they make us shine with cream and powder, Comb us every morning, make us “Raja Bacha” every day, they hold our hands and teach us how to write, they bought us pencils and pens and lion, cricketer notebooks, they accompanied us to toilets…”mummy dar lag raha hai”…”bete chalo dekho main dekh ri hun”…they carry us in their laps and show us they teach us life…they watch our all actions..
I don't want to compare mom love and also it doesn't exist, mom can't be compared…..Only I will say love your mom to the core of your heart. "She suffers pain of breaking approx. 17 bones while giving born to us"

Summary- First time request to my all readers to do practical..."Just go.. keep your head in mom lap...talk to her of her choice, her time (I mean when she was at your age)..." I can bet you...you will enjoy it..!!
God Bless Mom’s

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PrOuD

It's neither a story of bravery and nor I expect any appreciation..... But I think everyone in this planet need to understand the meaning of humanity...!!! 

Specially we Indians... We only love to criticize things...we show sympathy for dead person...we burn candles after rape cases....!!!

Allahabad, Friday evening around 7 PM...I was on my way back to hotel after having my dinner and evening walk....I found a boy of age around 14yrs, bleeding....his head had wounded badly by some heavy stone...the blood flow was not stopping.... it surely could have killed him had it continued for another 10 mint... I saw, more than 15+ ppl standing there like statue (I seriously wanted to ask those ppl what they were thinking? )... And other few crossed saying...chalo..chalo.. (I wanted to ask those ppl, where they were getting late? ).... But I thot let's first help the boy, later I will ask these ppl... I called emergency #100 (Police)...which automatically diverted toemergency#112...and it was busy... I called 6 times continuously...But.. Busy, Busy, Busy.......I asked a person standing there "where can I find police station" ?? He replied 500 M approx from here... I started running and before entering the police chowki an young constable stood and came towards me and asked "kya hua"? ..... I said sir, koi buri tarah injured hai.... He asked - kaha?  ...I replied- pass me hi... He started walking with me ....I just requested him "sir thoda tez chal sakte ho, uska khoon nikal raha hai".... He started running with me.. Once we reached the accident place.. He Called police station and informed regarding the boy...I think, his seniors told him to proceed in auto rather than waiting for police gypsy... Constable proceeded in private auto appreciating me "bahut achha kaam kiya" I just replied "Thank u Sir"... Few ppl standing there shaken hands with me and remaining passed me smile...!!!

Summarry- For the young constable..I appreciate his courage...if all police personnel start making efforts like he did... Soon police will earn good name in society..!!! To the Indian government you again failed and gave example of shit...wtf ? Why #100 or #112 was busy ?? And why I dint receive a call back ??..!! To All the readers...whenever you see any kind of situation similar like this... Please come forward and help...don't think about the outcome...! Take help of near resources like police and hospital.! Don't stand and wait for someone....! At last, if nothing, at least you will give new life to someone unknown and the proud which you will feel will be remain with you for your life..!!

God Bless Humanity… !!!

My Resignation

"YOU ARE FIRED"  - May be the words used by management or board members of Apple group...when they fired CEO of Apple Steve jobs in Mid-80's...!!! If I am not crazy....trust me I have a dream to get fired by any of the management of any company...!!! 
Do you know the meaning of resignation???... If not go and read Wikipedia.... If you read I think u may be agreed....but I am not... According to me Wikipedia must need to edit it... I am big believer of science and technology and so Newton’s third law says "every action has equal and opposite reaction"...! If an employee doesn't not perform management fires him/her....!! Same way if an employee resigns… he/she fires the management/leadership and company...!!
Wikipedia please edit it as "resignation means when a person fires the management or company"...or please change the meaning of fired, remove the fired tag from Steve jobs life, cause for so many youngsters like me he is a role model....!!!


Tuesday, Early morning, so many msgs in my Whatsapp and no of calls by my frnds why the hell I resigned??? I was not in mood to answer all….but i wanted to have discussion with my roommates cause they are one who always stand behind me in my all decision and Before I could say something.... My one of roomie asked is this cause of occasional 12hr shift ? or management ? or leadership ? or do I want to explore ? .. Or..... or...... Blaa...bla…?
I think, this is not the best time to answer..! But, answer to my friend who said 12hr shift..! Trust me keeping your ass at same place for 12hr in a day surely increase the size of your ass..! May be doesn't sounds good but if you want try it, do practical and see the result after 1 month....! I have seen it, my friend who runs 6KM daily and worked  12hr in night shift for 1 month still he looks like he will deliver baby soon.....I wish being a guy he won't.... !!!


For, The one who says management and leadership....!  Yes remember "all managers in this world is not a leader but all leaders are a good manager”… and trust me getting a tag of manager doesn’t ensure you are a leader…!! So, Dream to be a leader rather manager... Experience may make u a manager but to be a leader you need dedication, discipline and commitment...!!! 
So, u can resign your management when you find your management doesn't have courage to look into your eyes and talk...!!  Yes when u realize they are playing double..!! When you find they talk creamy in front of you and do opposite behind you..!!!
Stay tuned my next article will be on leadership...!!!


Disclaimer: please don't reach me for job/opportunity which u may have... If I want, I will get the one you have by own..!!! 

6 Types Of Managers In Corporate Company/Job

If I would be a manager I would have fired all the managers"..!!!  Were the words used by one of my friend who works in leading IT company....., When I asked her "Definition of manager???"
I am not against any manager or any human being...!! But I am against all those managers or human being who thinks "Management is similar like their A*s"...... " So wherever they want they can keep it ".. And I am with all those managers who helps their team mates to achieve, inspires to reach the stars...!!!

1.Star Manager (the one out of many): believe me he/she is one filtered out of many, he/she really describe the meaning of managers, does his/her work on time, motivates teams, talk sense and believes in positivity..!

2. Flirty manager (one who is not satisfied)- I think company hired him to take care of women empowerment…So he hires Only girls in his team to maintain the equality or may be to feed his own thrust...!

3. Coward (the one who always throw stones on other)- This type of boss makes it his/her job to make everyone else responsible for fixing his/her problems. He/she takes no responsibility for his own employees, department, or results. He/she is however, the first to take credit for something which went well.

4. Unfaithful (the one who fakes)-When you first meet this person you will at first think that you have just met the sweetest, most wonderful boss in the world. You will initially get the warm fuzzies and you’ll believe that it’s going to be a great job. Do not be fooled. This person is actually spineless. They will tell you exactly what you want to hear, then turn around and do the exact opposite. He or she will leave you hanging out to dry.

5. Politician (the one who plays double)- India follows the great spirit of politics, hence these managers too...they are tremendous in playing double role…they supports one who can feed them (in simple word, one who do buttering)… he/she moulds you with her/his talks and tries to rule your mind and thoughts so that you can work as a puppet for him/her…He/she can supress your words with her/him superiority.

6. The Team-Builder (One who build Team) - This is the kind of manager we all want to work for. They are competent at what they do, they know how to be open, and they solicit ideas and creativity from their employees. They are a pleasure to work with. They know how to make the tough decisions, but can do it in a way that is respectful and professional to all involved.

If you are working under manager understands the definition of manager and if your manager is in that criterion which fulfils the definition stay dere for long time... If not.... Move on dude....

To All the manager remember the fact that victory can increase the confidence of your employees which in turn increases the efficiency. You have to share the victory with people who contributed in one way or the other. Make them feel that their contribution, however small it is, mattered allot. They are the stepping stone for your success. You are incomplete without them. It doesn’t matter that in reality they do or not but it will increase their confidence and then the next time when a challenge comes up then they will work hard just to meet your previous expectation....!!!!

According to me a true manager is one who stood up for his/her mates, lead from the front, is a tower of strength for everyone around in times of stress....!!!!!!


"God Bless Managers"

Inspirational- “Failure Inspires Me”

Saturday late night i won a small war you can say battle. When somehow i convinced a youngster “not to give up” and convinced him for success. ….it is almost 2 years since i promised myself and started motivating the nation youngsters... Many ask me did i fail in my life. ??? Yes i failed no of times and may be still failing ….but every moment I fought like a warrior... Below few things which i always keep in my mind during my failures….hope this may help you too to fight against bad situation and hard times...

Remember……..

1. It’s a part of Life, it’s an event.

2. I remember Germany- who lost 2 World War still they are in History.

3. I remember Hitler- He lost the war but still known as the great Emperor.

4. I remember myself Ranked 4th in diploma engineering remained UNEMPLYOED for few months.

5. My 4 year love left me in between and i fought alone made me desirable boy for few other girls.

6. I remember my first interview which i failed and today i have courage to crack 95% of interview.

7. I remember my close friend who failed and recently was the chief guest of same college.

8. I remember Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Ambani, Aamir Khan, Sachin Tendulkar, Sandeep Maheswari and many more.

Yes failure is part of life, it’s an event…it’s not life…. loosing doesn’t means losing life.... some stupid said "failure gives experience"...in my case “it sucks a man, so out of it as soon as possible”...you need attitude…you need courage… you need mental support…You can come out...and you will... Don’t be afraid of acts, there is nothing regrettable…

I will not say you to fail…I will only say you to forget your failure and move on…Those who says they never failed, trust me he is a liar.. They need in person and special meeting with me, even if I am not available!!!

“All The Best”

14 Types Of Colleague You Will Find In Corporate Companies/Jobs...!!!!

Getting a tag of employment in India is like one of the biggest achievement... And being a professional in corporate companies is like "ppl know you as a highly paid and descent person"..!!!

My few years of experience made to write this article..! If you are one who is in corporate or may be trying to get into corporate you will obviously find these folks in your office..!!!!

1. Fenku (The one who talks impossible)- he is one who always tell those stories which is  UN-believable in nature...like he had offer from other 5 MNC... Recently he got Offer from Facebook, Google, Yahoo and rejected all bla..bla...he scored 90% in engineering..trust me he talks impossible i.e. he made his wife/GF pregnant without having sex....!!!

2. Chaatu (The one without self-respect)- they are one who is known as ass licker...they May be selfish... they may be not managers favourite but they love doing it..they may be not good at work but still they are appreciated..! Sometimes, they attention to every word what their managers says and desperately follows...!!

3. Maangu (The one who ask)- yes salary is thing which can never satisfy anyone in this world.. So hence, you will always find at least one who will say at the end of month "Bhai 1000 milenge kya...????" he/she is always an emotional person..!

4. Photographer (The one born with Camera)- he is self-oriented officially photographer. You can easily find him with camera either it may be a function, an event or a special day. He is the one who withdraw salary not for his good work but for his photography skill...;) !!!

5. Confused (The one who have lot of option)- he is one who confused everyone and always keep on saying "ye last month hai".."mera kaam me man nahi lagta"...I want to do something different...I hate this. That....they are basically frustrated and dissatisfied...I read it somewhere "dissatisfied ppl do extraordinary"....

6. Corporate classy (The one who maintains class) - the guy who have actually work to do…he puts his all effort to prove himself, fights with all situations, wears formals, comes office at time and leaves at time...

7.Politician or BBC (The one who is faster than BBC)- this personality think he/she is the next PM of India or next VP of current company....he/she collects all the information from other team and discloses to own team and the secret of his own team success to other teams..!

8.Model (The one who tries to maintain 36"-24"-36")- she is one who comes to office as its party night...you can easily find her with layers of pink, red, maroon lipstick on her lips.....for her there is nothing called Saturday or Monday but every day is party night...

9. Speaker (The one who speaks fast)- I think she should be the next speaker in parliament. Most probably/usually she belongs from south India. She speaks English like Spanish.. Yes she is so quick that u never can understand her...!

10. Mr Attitude (The one who looks different)- he is one who is skilled and knows his importance…You will always find him in New looks...with moustache. ..Without beard….and almost in all new style. A kind of moody guy who don't care for any shit and hell...

11.Traveller (The one without Home)- yes u Will find him/her cause he don't travell the world but he is in your company only for few months....he/she is guest, unstable guy/girl and if you want to see check his/her resume..he/she left previous companies in duration of 3-6 months only....

12. Lover (The one searching for soul mate)- the one who failed to search a girl in college..so he joins corporate to find true love...but later realized "fresher ka pyar to team lead ya managers le jate hai"...

13. Flirty (The one with big dreams)- she flirts from fresher’s to managers and later considers to grow in this industry she need all support of manager and so she.....(no explanation need)........ She plays with emotion of many fresher’s.!!!

14. Bhai/ Bro (The one who is patriotic)- he still not emerged from all those college activities...ie sports, flirt, love, weekend fun....and bla bla...he is consider as Bhai as he keep on sacrificing his things for others....they are patriotic in nature so sacrificing is in their blood..! He always tries to become true leader. .!

Team- it is always awesome to see a group of college students having fun and hence same applies to corporate... Sometime you are lucky to see circle of these ppl who enjoys to the infinity...who talks non veg...Who admire each other...who motivates each other...and who achieves together...! My salute to all such teams in corporat

e who believes life Is one, we live it once and they enjoy infinity without any politics, criticism and ego..!

To all the readers I am not pointing you are one of above or may be combination of few....But I am sure, if you are lucky enough. You will come across above all species but choose the Best as a friend for full life....enjoy the music of corporate..!!

"God bless Corporate"...!!

Stay tuned next m going to screw managers - "6 types of managers in corporate companies"..!!!