Let IT "Go"

Sunday 2:30 Am,…Early morning or late night ….mobile vibrating continuously..... somehow I manage to drag my Lean but heavy-67Kg body till mobile...two miscall...six unread message in WatsApp “hello”,.. “Ritesh so raha hai tu ??”… ”yaar dhoka hua”...."bhai mai mar jaunga".."she ditched me"…”she is *****”....messages from one of my buddy who wanted to give up....!

Before I reply anything, I found my blood rushing towards my brain.. I always get fear after listing a word death... I tried to convince him...I asked simple question to my friend and youngster who is preparing for Civil Services (One of the toughest exam in the world) and it was …“What Is Life And Love” ??.. He gave me the excellent answer but was against my philosophy “Life is a war to achieve love and everything is fair on this mission even death”...I just replied "saale tu pagal ho gaya hai"...”******”…. I said “chhod na yaar...this is not end. This is not life after all…“sai mein yaar...life means more”...he somehow got convinced.

According to me, If this is a war, than it’s not about losing or winning…it is not about the failure or success...it’s not about having or not having.....it's not about desire or undesired...but It's about trying..! ...I believe it's happiness, it's experience...and if life is not happiness than death is not the end..! If death is end than why still people watch the movies of Amrish puri, Rajesh khanna..why people listen songs of Jagjeet Singh,  why people still want to copy the dance of Michael Jackson, why we still follow Mahatma Gandhi...why we want to be patriotic like Bhagat Singh..! Yes sometime death is not end it s start of life...! You will wonder I dint knew Steve Jobs the day he died I googled him and later thought to achieve like him.. Do you think it was the end of Steve Jobs.. No still he is in mind of the youngsters like me..! Yes an artist never dies..  And not only those big names are artist...! We all are the artist of our own life... We all are the CEO of our own Career..!!...

 

 I don't want to write about life I wanted to write about love...! Yes the love which youngsters of this nation do..! Yes the love for which people die, the love for which youngsters do suicide, yes the love for we always want to leave our everything behind us..! Yes the love for which honour killing occurs (still it exists in India)...

Why youngsters lose their life after falling in love ?? .why love birds die??? ... I have seen people blaming the nation, government of India, society and many more...! I say only their parents and they themselves are responsible for their death..! It is better to become misogynist rather than becoming a lover who later dies...misogynist even hate their death... This is not death, not even sacrifice..! They dies and are dead for us…others die yet keep on living for all!!!...love is a art but to become the artist of love you need to live....yes you have to live...!...I think everyone of us have felt once in love where we even demanded  death for ourselves only to get him/her.... If anyone says no..You really need a in-person meeting with me..!..

“Kis jamane me ji rahe hai hum sab??”….  Where nation is in hand of a 50+ year guy and the youngsters of nation dying on the name of Love..! If you have been offended or got pain in love..keep on moving..days will be better...you will find prince/ princess...as I said love is an art and you are an artist.. So, an artist always can paint better than before...!

To the parents of this nation if your kid loves let them love, let them live… Don't become orthodox…. be the kind person and help them to achieve their dreams..!

To the all the lovers….life goes on… Love is not only kiss, hug, sex and death….love is pure.. A sacrifice...a respect… a faith… a hope… a wait… an encouragement … a motivation… a temperament…a world… a belief… a chase… a true journey… a promise…a reward… an achievement....a passion… Love is alcohol addiction only one reason to do it or not to do it…Love is not a smile…it is the sacrifice to earn that smile….Fight for love if it's not in your hand. Let it go...look for other things…other opportunity..!!

Summary- I have seen lot of youngsters spoiling life and career, suffering and crying cause of love..! They need mental support..! If you find anyone help them to fight..!

“God Bless Lovers”

Live In The "Present"

When I wrote one of the hardest ever article of my life and most controversial too "money can buy love". seriously being the youngster of a growing nation like India i was following the spirit of society and other youngsters... I was so future conscious that i was thinking about money...!!!

My dad is not a big follower of my articles...but he always reflects on my speech.. he knows what i am talking and what it will result into... Every time when i opened my mouth i got to know that its difficult to fight with a man who has more experience than my age, serving the nation and fighting with enemies. I always RESPECT his philosophy even though we both have different kind of thought processes.. I say “Time and tide waits for none” and he says “Sabar ka fal meetha hota hai”...!

He spoke against my last article...he gave me an example where power was dominating money.. All Indian eyes were on Barack Obama, when he visited India...The Capital of INDIA (New Delhi) was proud to welcome the honorable President of USA and the First Lady. People were interested in his car, Rajpath was eagerly waiting for Mr.Obama. The youngsters of India were looking for some new opportunities, new deals, new business... and lot of expectation from each and every person of India... every one including me was expecting something and watching the movement of Barack Obama.. what my dad noticed is power of power... yes he was watching the Class and Respect of POWER ...I don't know how many of you have noticed our great business men standing in queue only to meet Barrack Obama... you need guts to become an entrepreneur, to earn money... yet everyone was waiting for Barack Obama, its because of his power.I am not against Entrepreneurship, I am a big lover, but whats wrong if an youngster dreams to come in power become a president or a prime minister of a leading nation…!

Truly my dad wants me to believe in present.. Neither in future nor of past... just the PRESENT. Courageous thought of a man in white and black hair at the age of 50+...

I live a very conservative life..i convert thoughts into actions..i respect future...

His thought says Live as if there is no tomorrow, No senseless transactions... don't take present for granted...do your best in present.. live in the present who knows "Kal Ho Naa Ho"... never regret and never become too proud cause when life breaks your back it brings tears."Future is unknown, future is uncertainty, future Is fear....If any one says he knows his or her future..I am open for arguments..! I am ready to break the bones..ha..ha.ha..he..

Summary- I always say that don't think about past.. Today I will say don't think about future..! Luck is important..but, You will get everything what u want and what you deserve.. So enjoy your present.. Trust and believe yourself...work and work hard.. Enjoy life... Cause Life "A" True Journey..

"God Bless Planet"...! LIVE and Love..!

Money Can Buy LOVE...?

A random question from one of my sweetest buddy, “can money buy love?” My reply was YES money can buy LOVE…

My answer may make/made you to think that I am talking shit….you may give dammn but by the end of this blog you will realize shit exists and shit happens...! ...I know there are different perceptions on this topic yet you will agree with my statement….

From past 3 months my friend was unknowingly serving an old lady by giving her a biscuit packet or at time a coin of Rs.5 on daily basis…. Yesterday we wanted to have some conversation with her so we went but that lady was unable to communicate with us as she only knows Kannada language and we don't… later we pulled over one of our local friend to start conversation with her, she said c loves a person who always donates biscuits or Money to her.. "I tried different ways, I gave her very motivational speech, I tried to give her sympathy"... I thought she might love me but she only wanted to love a person who gives her money… And yes it was my friend who was sitting next to me..!

I still remember one moment which happened with me. Few days back I called my ex-girl just to know how she is and what's happening in her life.....Shockingly I got to know her orthodox family give her a choice to choose one guy out of many they selected for her marriage... She finalized a guy who is an NRI and who have lots of money. I sincerely asked why she want to marry only this guy.... she hopefully replied what I was expecting, I would definitely choose future which is secure with a hubby + money. In-turn she wants to buy love... She herself agreed with her own word that may be the money of her husband can buy love for her..!

Recently I went to the local orphanage with my few of my buddies, we donated blanket, bed sheets etc…. The head of orphanage was happy but when we paid few thousand bucks in addition, the head was happier and he replied... all child's love you..!

Simple but true this society made us the biggest dependents of Money, we were and we are the biggest ever lover of money and we dramatically changed or learned to buy love with the help of money.!

We went so down that even in temples while giving donations we ask God that we want bla..bla..bla.. Yes we want to buy love there also...!

Summary: "The one who pays, gains"….Even love can be bought..!