Monday, December 14, 2015

TRUST

Today generation:-
I don't trust any men, you know all men’s are same (voice of women)...!!!
Bhai ye women’s sab ek jaisi hoti hai, inpe trust karna hi nahi chaiye (voice of men)....!!!

Question to all those men and woman who said above sentence at least once in their life -please answer me… Why because of one, you imagined all are same and if everyone is same why the hell you tried all..?? If you have answer and may prove your point you can ping me in whatsapp and i can give you surety next i will publish your story soon...!!! If you can't than please don't say above words again...!!

What is TRUST???(A question asked by my friend)
I know you have answer....I too have and I replied "A word which we all use in daily life"...at least 10 Times in day. Nowadays, TRUST is nothing else than a word..!! We forgot the meaning of it...we don't respect it anymore....we don't care...!

Trust is -
1.When Indian-Cricket team goes to play world cup and we sitting in home hope MSD won't make us down...that hope is trust.
2. When a father throws a kid up in the air and catches him back...the laugh of kid is trust.
3. When a girl walks with a guy in mid-night or sits in park with him...that smile of girl is trust.
4. When a mom stays far from son/daughter and eagerly waits for his/her call…that wait of mom is trust.
5. When one blindly loves other…that love is trust.
6. When a beautiful marries a stranger and go to his house… that belief is trust.
7. When a sister and brother care for each other... that care is trust.
8. When a student writes an exam and fails and writes it again...that try is trust.
9. Early morning when i stepped in a park, on the front gate every day i found a helpless man- no money, no identity, no individuality, not even enough food and shelter, nothing to cheer up....but still he breath… that breath is trust.
10. A youngster fall in love he or she apparently ditched by opposite sex and cries full day/night...that tears is trust


In above all cases you know whom we trust...it's individual; yes it's not we... It's me and you…

We all trust someone someday, but somewhere in life we all lose that trust..!!  Now, question is whose mistake? 
It's not about whose mistake....it may be anyone mistake...! But why it happened? , its cause either your choice were wrong or you yourself is wrong.....! In maximum case we point others rather pointing ourselves......!!!



What kind of person we can trust???
The simple logic to trust people is: - Initially, Never trust the one who is superior/elder to you. Such type of person will leave you in between. Never trust the person who is less/younger than you, he/she will give their helpful hands to someone breaking your promises. Try to trust the person who holds a same spirit, desire, choice and dreams like you. Don't trust anyone easily. Let the time reveal you the real them. Anyone makes a mistake and that's vital. Even I do mistakes and i’m a very caring person. Whenever a person become a part of your life, trust them, but not with your feelings. Trust them with your mind; trust them because that's the right thing to do, not because you feel that you can trust them....!!!!

My philosophy says...I still don’t have answers to those questions, which I already answered. Cause in the journey of trust i may failed while trusting people or people hurted me the way they wanted… which seriously made those moments memorable for my entire life...I have to live with those unfortunates trust on them... Nothing to hit on, it came back on me.  “What makes us live??”It’s only TRUST which keep us ALIVE...Trust is Future...!!!

God Bless "Untrustworthy human"


P.S- This was due for long.Thanks Shilpa for motivating me to write on this topic...!! Stay tuned, my upcoming articles "Pain of A lover" and "Getting married”

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